"I just wish people would realize that it's literally the government vs. the people"
You should check out this great podcast - two transmen who are also gender critical interview lots of sane people on this issue. They are both baffled by the concept of "gender identity" and this mania for transness being about navel gazing about your gender rather than a wrenching body dysmorphia. These guys are a great alternative to the twin idiocies dominating the discourse - on one hand we have Opus Dei douchebags like Matt Walsh yelling about groomers and on the other hand we have the "Transwomen are women" idiots. Almost nobody believes in either of these poles and it comes down to just siding with whose idiocy does the least damage. https://www.youtube.com/@GenderDysphoriaAlliance/videos